NO… The real question is who are you going to be?

Will you look at yourself and make a change, will you become who you are supposed to be? Or, will you just stay the same, do the same old thing and be average?

Often we have a vision or we dream about who we want to be, and even more often we never realize that it is not who we want to be but all about who we will be! Why do we tease and play with the thoughts, why do we entertain the idea and never act? Why do we take the easy route?

We are programmed to take the easy route. Our minds are wired to keep us from avoiding pain and suffering. When times get tough it is common for us to shut down and avoid, to do what we can to not feel the pain or the go through the suffering!

On my days off I get up between 4:30 and 5 am and get going. Usually I walk but like I said, I have become soft. I can do more and its not about who I want to be it is about who I am going to be. So now I started running, I hate running, it sucks…

As I sit here this morning writing I can honestly say I can barely move. My body is sore, its my day off, but really there is no days off. I looked at myself realized I have become soft and can do more, be better, go further, work harder, and it is about who you are going to be! I just got up and went for run. My mind did not want me to but you must control the mind to be able to push through the suffering!

I work on building my business too. There is no days off, when I am not at my day job, I am reading, writing, pushing, working on my business. There is only more work, and who I am going to be! I choose to be the one that works more, puts in more effort, the person that gets up before most people and succeeds while most are safe and sound in bed!

I chose to work through the pain, my mind saying don’t do it! So I got up put my coffee cut down and ran, took control of my mind and made a choice about who I am going to be today!

Think about your life, who do you want to be? Then stop and ask yourself who am I going to be! forget the want, there is only do or not! Your either going to do it or your not!

It is time to ask yourself who are you going to be? Are you going to accept who you are and where you are, and do you like who you are and where you are?

Then the real question, the only one that matters “who am I going to be?”

We as individuals can accomplish great things, we just have to look at who we are where we want to go and who we want to be. The journey will be hard, there will be pain and suffering, but on the other side of that is peace, joy, and a deeper love for yourself.

Will you be who you are destined to be? Will you choose to run you life or will you let your life run you? Will you get to the end and say I did it, I have no regrets, I am who I was destined to be?

Know the path will be difficult, set goals and hit them, and move the finish line early to keep progress in your life, and choose to be who you want!

Accept who you are and be real about it. It won’t help to sugar coat it and tell yourself lies about who you are. That is the most difficult part, accepting who you are right now but when you accept who you are, truly accept you, then and old then can you make the change and find out who you are going to be!

Now, don’t just talk about it! Talking about who you want to be is just that, talk. You need to take actions towards who you want to be, through the pain and suffering and then you will be who you want to be! You need to become who want to be and when you actions align with who you want to be you will be who you want to be!

Don’t stop when it gets tough! Be strong, most likely there are lots people in life who have had it much worse than you. You going to want to quit, to say I will take it easy today but don’t give in! Fight, work hard, and be the person you want to be!

When you live it you are it!

After you finish reading this go… Go be who you are destined to be!!!